Absorbing the Spanish culture is a must

The Spanish have an enviable history of enjoying themselves. Having never been a particularly wealthy nation they have however embraced the pleasures of their "fiestas". You don't always need money to enjoy yourself.

Every town and village in Spain has it's traditions with particular festivals scattered throughout the year. Apart from the religious festivals, of which there are many, many of the "fiestas" are just a big excuse to drink lots and have a great time, with all the family getting involved, including the kids (although they tend not to get drunk!).

Most areas host a "feria" or fair once or twice a year. The kids love it going on all the rides and the adults can relax watching some of the shows which go on into the early hours of the evening.

It seems that in Spain most of the activities usually involve the whole family. Bed times aren't readily set with many of our Spanish friends allowing their kids to stay up till midnight even with school the next day. I don't actually agree with this but it is the way they've always done it and they seem happy to drag their kids to school the next day half asleep.

The Spanish are also very fond of their food. I'm a particular fan of the many fish dishes you can get although the inland "ventas" concentrate on meat dishes, which are mostly excellent too. We're always used to eating at around 1pm but on a weekend the Spanish don't venture into a restaurant until around 2:30 - 3 o'clock, so we tend to have the restaurant to ourselves when we go.

Most people have heard of "tapas" which are small plates of different types of food. These tend to be eaten more in bars over a beer. If you go out to eat in a restaurant you will order "raciones" which are much larger portions.

All in all life in Spain can be very good although what many find difficult about Spain is one of the most important parts of the Spanish culture....the laid back attitude. Don't expect anyone to rush about for you, don't expect orderly and quick queues at the bank, don't expect anyone to hurry, it's just not in their nature to do so.

So for anyone contemplating living in Spain remember to chill out, slow down and enjoy life, just like the Spanish do.